No matter what type of relationship you are seeking, the delivery of the pick-up line is crucial. Reading these pick-up lines on your couch in not going to be good enough. You must put yourself in front of a mirror and practice, practice, practice.

Your body language is almost more important than the pick-up line itself. Many communication experts agree that what you say in a face-to-face interaction only counts for twenty percent of the perceived message. What this means is that the girl will be paying great attention to your face expression, posture, energy level, and tone of voice. On this note, if you deliver a great pick-up line with a static face expression you’re not likely to get far. However, if you deliver a pick-up line with a smile that radiates confidence, she might be making you breakfast tomorrow morning.

 

When you visualize picking up a woman, think about the bar scene in the movie “Top Gun” when Maverick (Tom Cruise) courts Charlie (Kelly McGillis) by singing “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling.” He does it with confidence, charisma, and a smile. That is how you want to deliver your pick-up line, however you can save the singing part for the shower.

 

Go to your bathroom mirror and take a look at yourself. Stand up straight, take your hands out of your pockets, and put on your seductive-but-friendly gaze. Now with a smile, practice a few pick-up lines from Chapter 2: Anytime Pick-Up Lines.

 

As you practice, focus on your smile. Everyone loves a great smile. A smile disarms a woman. It tells her that you come in peace. Tom Cruise and Julia Roberts didn’t climb to the top of their game because of their frowns. Now your smile may not be a million bucks but whose is. Don’t forget, Tom Cruise is short and has a big nose. He’s not perfect and he sure doesn’t let those shortcomings get in his way.

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